My husband and i and our lack of life?

You sound like me and my partner mostly! I have been with my partner for almost 19 years. similar ages as well. Life gets in the way, he works long hours and I'm a girl, so is important to me which takes a long time. I like the personal touch like brushing the hair off my face and putting his hand on the small of my back when I walk through a door, that is a turn on for me. but he works such long hours that he falls asleep on the couch when he get's home! My guy hates talking about this stuff as well, he's a MAN'S MAN! so if I want some I just have to cop a feel! which I do! I'm not apologising for it either.